Reframe the story you tell yourself about change.
Let’s assume you want to start your own business,
and someone close to you tells you to stick it out where you currently are.
After all, you’ve got a regular pay check,
you know what you’re doing,
you get on with colleagues,
you’re comfortable and safe.
They want to protect you, they don’t want you to suffer because they love you.
This resonates with you because the same conflict is going on inside your head.
Doubts are designed to warn you of the potential dangers you may face
and paying attention to them is wise.
But it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t go ahead, it just means your plan needs to keep the pitfalls in mind,
to mitigate them as much as possible
The unknown is uncomfortable and exciting at the same time.
You feel alive because there is uncharted territory ahead,
it’s a natural reaction, in the same way as a surprise or something unexpected grabs your attention from the slumber of your familiar routine,
we have evolved to pay attention to change, to different, to new, because they are unknown.
The unknown has significance. Suddenly there is uncertainty, and risk, and you need to pay attention to it in case it hurts you.
But don’t quit because of it. You can’t do anything different or new without encountering some level of unknown.
As well as paying attention to the possible dangers, give thought to the opportunities and possibilities that come out of change.
You become more by experiencing more. Even failure can be a great teacher, so don’t fear it, just plan to mitigate it where possible.
The status quo is a lie, change is inevitable, whether you accept it our not.
Face change, deal with change, take advantage of change
Be a predator of chance rather than a victim of circumstance.